Destanee Aiava is leaving the tour at 25, and she did not go quietly.
In a nine-slide Instagram statement the Australian announced that 2026 will be her final year on tour, calling tennis “a toxic boyfriend” and accusing the sport of being “racist, misogynistic, homophobic and hostile to anyone who doesn’t fit the mould.”
Aiava’s Explosive Farewell
I want to say a ginormous f— you to everyone in the tennis community who’s ever made me feel less than.
Destanee Aiava
Her post mixed blunt grief with open anger and a refusal to keep quiet about what she described as years of being broken, bullied and disillusioned by life on the circuit, which she said has cost her joy as much as momentum.
Aiava mapped the arc back to her first lesson at Casey Tennis Club and to the pressure that followed early success, noting she became the first player born in the 2000s to compete in a Grand Slam and carried that expectation forward.
She admitted there was a point at 17 when she was “unprepared and dangerously naive to the consequences of trusting the wrong people,” a moment she says altered the trajectory of a career that once felt ready for a breakthrough.
Aiava said she kept playing out of obligation and fear, writing that “Life is not meant to be lived in misery or half assed” and that her “ultimate goal is to be able to wake up everyday and genuinely say I love what I do.”
The message landed with visible support, attracting likes and comments from athletes and peers such as Emma Tonegato, Sloane Stephens, Daria Saville, Storm Hunter, Jason Kubler, Maddy Inglis and Olympian Morgan Mitchell, plus influencer Costeen Hatzi.
The Culture Aiava Called Out
Aiava accused tennis of hiding prejudice behind so-called class and gentlemanly values, calling out the imagery of “white outfits and traditions” and arguing that the game can be hostile to anyone who does not fit a narrow mold.
She also detailed the online abuse that fed her decision, from death threats to chronic body shaming, and highlighted one troll who suggested she should take up “competitive eating” and labelled her “big af” as emblematic of sustained harassment.
The former teen prodigy has not been shy about calling out elitism in the sport before, including publicly defending Naomi Osaka and suggesting commentators sometimes act as if “tennis [is] only for the white people,” a line she has used to illustrate the exclusion she feels.
Legacy, Results And What Comes Next
On paper Aiava leaves with tangible achievements: she has won 10 ITF singles titles and reached a career-high ranking of world No. 147 in 2017, alongside recent highlights such as a second-round appearance at the 2025 Australian Open.
She also enjoyed headline moments that hinted at bigger things, famously beating then world No.10 Aryna Sabalenka in 2019 and becoming something of a cult favorite after her Melbourne Park breakthrough, even if consistency proved elusive.
Aiava closed her statement by thanking those who supported her journey, naming family, sponsors, friends, her partner and even her cats, and saying she will finish the chapter on her own terms before stepping into a next phase defined by purpose and creativity.
Her exit leaves more than a personal story; it forces a sport to reckon with how culture, social media and internal dynamics shape careers and wellbeing for players who do not fit an idealized image of the game.
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